Many people have mistaken notions about "personality". Personality is the sum and substance of a large number of things. Thus personality is not to be equated with:
Accessories (Clothing, make-up, things)
Some of the above things are components of personality, but they in themselves are not the personality of a person.
Thus every person should work at a combination of things that together give rise to acharming and God-honouring personality. They should also note that not everyone will have the same components in their personality. For example, some people might be good conversationalists but not everyonecan be so. It does not matter if you do not have a particular componentbecause personality is not equal to individual components. It is the sum and sut of the factors right, then you become the owner of an attractive and God-honouring bstance of a large number of factors. If you get most personality of the factors right, then you become the owner of an attractive and God-honouring.